Month: March 2020

Don’t Push Your Relationship

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Since these are the days of the Covid-19 virus, and the self-imposed quarantine, that we are all trying to abide by, I decided that I’d better write this article for all of you women out there that think that you should always be pushing for more. I base this advice on so many reading, thousands, even tens of thousands. This is also based on readings with both women and men, it is also coming from my voice as well, yes I am a male, I’m a guy and us men, well we are not quite as good as you women are, especially when it comes to romance and relationships in general. This post, however, is going to be about asking or pushing for more while you are cooped up with your significant other. There are times to get more, I have ways that will help you do just that, but pushing for more, especially now, is not going to work.

Now for this, I am going to focus on the “on top of each other” situation that I am hearing about, from so many clients right now, during the Covid-19 Virus shutdown and quarantine. There are so many differences between men and women in the area of romance. I could never get all of that into one post, but that will be the general theme of this site, articles, and blog, so keep checking back and make sure you subscribe.

When a man is trapped, or let’s say “Feeling Trapped” that sounds much better. When a man feels this way, the very last thing you want to do is push for what I call more. More, if you do not understand what that is, well it means getting closer, sharing feelings, talking about the relationship and where it is and where it may be headed. Expressing feelings, sharing the way they feel, all of this is generally a tough subject anyway with many men, but when they have no way to exit or get that space they need, it can be a powder keg waiting to blow, don’t let your relationship explode. I always say to my clients call me first not after if you can. I can help you.

Men, no matter if your married, dating and confined together, living with each other, or any combination of this can be delicate, to begin with. Even long and healthy marriages need constant work to stay healthy, and men need that space to handle things sometimes, and if things are not so good with your relationship at this moment, and you feel you are going to take advantage of the time together to make that next jump, then think again. This is not the time to push for more, and there are other reasons to not do this based on many other circumstances, but let us just say that for now, in these days, with the unknown fears in our minds, in his mind, the last thing a man wants to think about is the relationship. Romance is even tough, be happy with enjoying the moments, especially now. Pick your time wisely and be well educated about how he will react to more. I’m very good with that help.

I know that statement about not using this time for relationship growth feels counter-intuitive to many women. Women may feel this is the perfect time to ask for more, to get closer to each other. Do not fall into this trap. I warn you.
Make sure we are all safe and healthy and working again before we get so hyper-focused on the relationship. I am here to read you, your person of interest, and your relationship. I can then help you find the best way, and the best time, to get closer to your man. I am very good at this, they don’t call me “The Romance Psychic” for nothing.

Use this time together to show him that you respect him as a person and his space, without making yourself seem like another pressure, because, most people, and yes especially men, when it comes to money and work, we get very upset when that area of our life is not under control. This Covid-19 pandemic is not helping, everyone is worried and men are thinking so much about how to keep that paycheck coming in. He could be very worried, depending on what he does for a job, things are changing fast. He may be hiding his feelings, that’s another area where I can help you, You see, us men, we hide feelings, when women can be more expressive and express their feelings. Men are very different than women and that is why I am here.
Stay safe, healthy and happy. Wash your hands.

Love And Light
Psychic Andrew

Covid-19 And Spirituality

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No, this may not be about romance or psychic readings but I felt the need to write my feelings down, and I thought no better place than my blog and site.

I want to start by saying that I’m on my second week of self-imposed quarantine, I have been watching the news like so many other people, and it just brings tears to my eyes, to see what is happening in the world today, both tears of sadness and tears of great joy and hope.

I don’t mean the Coronavirus exactly. I don’t mean the panic and the hoarding, and all crazy stuff you see in our world the way it is now. The truth is that many people are out for just themselves, self-preservation and all that nonsense. I have seen masks being sold for 50 dollars each, yes a 1 dollar mask, I have seen hand sanitizer sell for what premium spirits would sell for.
I see people not squeezing the Charmin, but grabbing for it in a wild frenzy. I mean what’s going on out there. What about our humanity, well it is alive and well, and there are many signs of this. Selfless acts of random kindness, the all so nice, have a great day, or blessings, or thank you, even that has become scarce and now it is back. This is a great thing. The virus that brought us together. Who could have thought this? I could have, and most of us should have. Whenever things threaten us we come together as a country, as a people, and a world eventually. Spirituality is rampant now.

What I have noticed is all that yes there are some bad people out there still just focused on themselves, and I am not surprised as this is the norm, but what I have also seen is people from all walks of life, from every state, city, and town, of every color, religious background, and yes every political affiliation as well, I have seen these people come together in a spiritual explosion something that has been well needed in this country and beyond for quite some time. I honestly was starting to think that this was not even possible anymore. It took a virus to bring us together. and I feel that at least in part, this coming together is something that will stay. I am so happy about that, amidst all the problems that we are overcoming day by day, and all the fear inside of us, we still come together for the common survival and good of our people. We can overcome everything, if we just join together spiritually, that will lead us to the rest, to the actions that better us as a species. To absolute joy and happiness. To be a more spiritual person.

Spirituality means many things. The dictionary has a few definitions, and I chose this one. It defines spirituality as “the quality of being concerned with the human spirit or soul as opposed to material or physical things“. I like that definition. It says it all, it means that you care about the person, the people, the other, before any care of personal or physical possessions. That is very hard for many human beings. We have that self-preservation built-in, and we have different levels of spirituality, and yes compassion for others.

Spirituality is a goal for everyone, and if not for you, then it should be. Before any of us can have the things we want and aspire to in our life, before we can have that perfect partner in crime, that love of your life, it is my belief that we must first have some level of spirituality in our lives. I help people get to that place. Spirituality will save us all from the parts of life that have become commonplace and are just not spiritual at all.

I think its a shame and a blessing, to have a virus, a deadly pandemic as the spark that ignites us all to come together, but never the less the pandemic is here, and we will beat this back as a people, we will overcome this like we do all things in life, when we all come together, and work as one.
Become more spiritual and you will see your life improve in every way.

These days please try and put the other first, if just for that moment. Think about the person in front of you, beside you, and behind you. You neighbors, your friends, and yes the stranger that may need just a little help in these times of trouble and fear for many. Please keep the faith, stay spiritually in tune, do not panic. Think clearly about how you can do your part to make another’s life a little better. If we all do that then this pandemic will have not hurt us, but it will have helped us. We will bounce back, as a people, as a nation, and as a world. Be that spiritual person you know you can be, and if your scared and need someone to talk with, help clarify things, bring you comfort in the form of spirituality, then please call or chat with me today.
You can also leave a comment, I will be happy to answer you. I wish all people the spirituality, and the perseverance, they need in these troubled times.

Love and Light
Psychic Andrew

Covid-19 And Relationships

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The Coronavirus, also known as Covid-19, will have an everlasting effect on our lives and our relationships. The amount of change in our lives at this time is yet to be seen, but I am already starting to get readings from my family of clients asking me about problems they are having associated with all the stress and pressure in their everyday lives and now this as well. Covid-19 as an additional pressure in your life? Another really big problem to deal with.
Do not worry I can help. There is quite a bit of self-quarantine, and distancing going on as well. This is starting to produce problems with contact, communication, and in some cases giving the other person in your relationship, an excuse to stay away or distance himself from you. We need to not allow this to happen.

The opposite of this is also being seen in many of my readings. Instead of distancing many couples who live together are now having to be on top of each other. This can be a bad thing, and I know many of my female clients say to me that this will help them get closer, and maybe allow them to spend more quality time together, but when you are stressed out and worried about real-world problems, a relationship is the last thing on a man’s mind, and getting closer can feel like a huge weight on a man’s chest, so go easy on the way you think about this, and allow me to read you, your significant other, and the relationship so I can help guide you down a smooth path.

This is the very start here in the United States of this Covid-19 pandemic. Things will, and already are changing. I can tell this from my readings. This is just the start. I am going to continue to write about this in real-time. I will write more about what is happening and how this is going to affect your relationship and relationships in general. I do believe that all relationships are unique however, we can generalize in some ways of course, but relationships can not be put into a neat little box and marked general, normal, or anything else. I can tell you from over 40 thousand readings at the very least, that each and every relationship, romance, and marriage are very different, and that is the most important reason to get a reading from me so that you can see from a unique point of view, where your relationship is, where it is headed, and how you can change things to make your relationship better. I can help you no matter what the problem is. Whether your feeling closed in or feeling far away, it does not matter which. I can help you understand your relationship and the problems or feelings that are hindering it, and help you make your life, and your relationship better. Things do not need to remain the same.

This is an interactive blog you know, please feel free to start or join in the discussion. Leave a comment and it will be posted below, others can see it and they can reply as well. Many people all over the world are going to be stuck inside their home, we are all going to have to understand that this brings changes, so use this as a forum, a way to let something out that your holding onto. Use this to ask me any question that you don’t mind asking in public, just add your comments to this or any post. I will continue to write more about this subject as things ramp up here in the United States. I never give medical advice, I leave that to the medical professionals. If you need or want any information on Covid-19 also known as the Coronavirus, please
visit www.cdc.gov

Love and Light
Psychic Andrew