Since these are the days of the Covid-19 virus, and the self-imposed quarantine, that we are all trying to abide by, I decided that I’d better write this article for all of you women out there that think that you should always be pushing for more. I base this advice on so many reading, thousands, even tens of thousands. This is also based on readings with both women and men, it is also coming from my voice as well, yes I am a male, I’m a guy and us men, well we are not quite as good as you women are, especially when it comes to romance and relationships in general. This post, however, is going to be about asking or pushing for more while you are cooped up with your significant other. There are times to get more, I have ways that will help you do just that, but pushing for more, especially now, is not going to work.
Now for this, I am going to focus on the “on top of each other” situation that I am hearing about, from so many clients right now, during the Covid-19 Virus shutdown and quarantine. There are so many differences between men and women in the area of romance. I could never get all of that into one post, but that will be the general theme of this site, articles, and blog, so keep checking back and make sure you subscribe.
When a man is trapped, or let’s say “Feeling Trapped” that sounds much better. When a man feels this way, the very last thing you want to do is push for what I call more. More, if you do not understand what that is, well it means getting closer, sharing feelings, talking about the relationship and where it is and where it may be headed. Expressing feelings, sharing the way they feel, all of this is generally a tough subject anyway with many men, but when they have no way to exit or get that space they need, it can be a powder keg waiting to blow, don’t let your relationship explode. I always say to my clients call me first not after if you can. I can help you.
Men, no matter if your married, dating and confined together, living with each other, or any combination of this can be delicate, to begin with. Even long and healthy marriages need constant work to stay healthy, and men need that space to handle things sometimes, and if things are not so good with your relationship at this moment, and you feel you are going to take advantage of the time together to make that next jump, then think again. This is not the time to push for more, and there are other reasons to not do this based on many other circumstances, but let us just say that for now, in these days, with the unknown fears in our minds, in his mind, the last thing a man wants to think about is the relationship. Romance is even tough, be happy with enjoying the moments, especially now. Pick your time wisely and be well educated about how he will react to more. I’m very good with that help.
I know that statement about not using this time for relationship growth feels counter-intuitive to many women. Women may feel this is the perfect time to ask for more, to get closer to each other. Do not fall into this trap. I warn you.
Make sure we are all safe and healthy and working again before we get so hyper-focused on the relationship. I am here to read you, your person of interest, and your relationship. I can then help you find the best way, and the best time, to get closer to your man. I am very good at this, they don’t call me “The Romance Psychic” for nothing.
Use this time together to show him that you respect him as a person and his space, without making yourself seem like another pressure, because, most people, and yes especially men, when it comes to money and work, we get very upset when that area of our life is not under control. This Covid-19 pandemic is not helping, everyone is worried and men are thinking so much about how to keep that paycheck coming in. He could be very worried, depending on what he does for a job, things are changing fast. He may be hiding his feelings, that’s another area where I can help you, You see, us men, we hide feelings, when women can be more expressive and express their feelings. Men are very different than women and that is why I am here.
Stay safe, healthy and happy. Wash your hands.
Love And Light
Psychic Andrew
