Enjoy The Moment, learn to live in the moment and enjoy your relationship. This will get you the best results
Many times while you are allowing time, yes time the great king of changes, the chance to make things better, to allow circumstances to change, if that is where you are in a relationship, I call that waiting, and it may be good or bad depending on your current situation, but you may also find yourself thinking about what comes next, what will happen, if things don’t work out, if this happens or that happens.
Will we be together always when will he come closer, communicate more lose that “other Person” in his life holding him from you, when will his finances get better, when will he move closer to me. All those things that can be holding back your relationship and so many other things that only sometimes time can fix. They can get caught up in your brain, and you start making those “movies” in your head, you know those movies I’m talking about? You start thinking about it not working or things not going well, in other words, your always looking at the glass as being half empty rather than half full. You may be manifesting the failure of the relationship or any chance at one.
Those movies that we make up in our head need to be positive movies with good endings. Not negative movies with bad endings. What we think, and those movies we make can and will change what is ahead of us. They can manifest things that you can not control. It is so simple but the truth is that when you focus on positive thoughts you get positive results, when you focus on negative thoughts you get negative results.
If you are at a point where things are fine for now and you are progressing in the relationship and in that waiting mode than be positive, please. Why be negative? It won’t help and may hurt.
Things do vary, however, like I always say every single relationship, romance or love affair, is very different, all are unique with many things in common but all unique and should be treated that way.
Let us say for example you are in a relationship, what part of the relationship, for now, is not important. It could be the start of a new one, the middle of one, the fresh start of an old relationship gone bad, it does not matter when it comes to this subject. Time is not infinite for us, every day you waste is a day lost. When you are with your special man or women it is important to savor that moment, to enjoy the time that you are together, the time you spend talking or communicating, the time you both share. So many times you will find yourself with the person you care about but, all you are doing, is thinking about what will happen after, what will come next, what change will this meeting bring.
This is such a waste and in so many cases it is destructive as well, especially if you are thinking negatively. You need to at those moments just not think. You need to embrace the moment in a positive manner, enjoy the time you are together, savor the sounds of his voice, touch, smell, or even laugh. Do not worry if you are going to see him the next day, speak to him tomorrow, or even worry if this will be the last time you do see him, or her. Don’t think about what the time together is going to do for the relationship, enjoy that time now. This must happen, if you cant “Enjoy The Moments” together at any given time, especially early on, then what are you expecting to happen later. Enjoying the moments can bring you the best result in most cases. enjoy that’s what we want right?
I mean to enjoy it. Notice the small things, the positive things, and actions. If you feel something negative or feel something is off please ignore those feelings at least for now. When you are with the other person, you want to immerse yourself in that point in time. You want to covet that time you spend as if it was the last time you will be together, but in a good way, not the bad way, where all you can do is think about whether it will be or not, or be the last time, or not. So much great time together and amazing fun, love, and feelings can be lost because we are not thinking and living in the moment. We are preoccupied thinking about things that are not in our control, or things that are but should be dealt with at a different time.
When you are together all you should be doing is enjoying yourself, realizing the entire time all the great things you feel about that person, and never start thinking about the things you want to change, or the things that are not perfect yet. We work on those things.
Nobody is perfect ever. That is a fact, worrying about things does not help. That is also a fact, but that great feeling you have when you are with him that’s worth enjoying, we can always later work on making things better, for now, you enjoy the moments.
The most important fact is that when you are with the person you want to be with you should make that moment the most important time in your life. If you just relax and enjoy the time you are together, without thinking negatively about “stuff”, without wondering what will happen, or what comes the next day, then you have accomplished many positive things.
The first thing you have accomplished, and the best thing, is that you enjoyed him or her at the highest level possible. You had fun, you felt great, you laughed, you shared, you got the most from that person and that moment. The second thing that you accomplished was creating all those positive feelings that lead to better times ahead. The third thing you have accomplished is the remembrance of the great time you had when you were together so you can use those memories to create positive movies later that will lead to good endings and great changes.
It is a win-win situation. It also ensures that while you are spending that time together, you are not fighting, disagreeing, or creating negative feelings, or energy, that can, and most likely will cause problems. It is easy I assure you. We want to enjoy the moments, so now just do that. Throw the thoughts about your relationship away for now and just “Enjoy the moment.” If your not in a place where that is happening for you then you must call or chat with me right away.
So now that you have read this please put this to good use. The next time you are with your man or woman, the next time you communicate, make it glorious. Do yourself the favor, you will not regret this ever I assure you. It may sound simple because it is, but when you put it to use you will find that enjoying the moment, changes things without even trying. This is the easiest way to make things better in any relationship, romance, or marriage. This works, and it has no downside.
Love and Light Psychic Andrew
