Romance And Men

February 4, 2020March 19, 2020 ~ Psychic Andrew ~ Leave a comment

This psychic blog contains several of my popular articles about saving your relationship, getting it back on track, getting more communication from your man and, how to enjoy the moments, taking the pressure off both you, the other person, and the relationship, romance or marriage.

The information in this article and the many others can help you with so many situations, and problems, that you may find yourself in. You may be amazed as you read the articles posted here, how they correspond with some, or even many, of your personal situations. It comes from my heart, and soul, from myself, Psychic Andrew. The articles and pages here include not only psychic and spiritual information, focusing on many different areas of love and relationships, but this psychic blog also contains information from a male psychic’s point of view, and a man’s perspective, on many other subjects that intersect.

I feel that both, the inside information you get from a psychic love and relationship reading, and the male point of view are necessary for you to understand the workings of a man. Not just a man, or men in general, but how men feel about, and yes, face romance, relationships, and that scary word love. Men feel pressure also when it comes to romance and relationships. The issue at hand is that men are not as vocal or expressive about romance, or that big word love, as women can be. Remember please, all of this comes from over forty thousand readings, 33 years of helping people see what’s ahead, and what can be done, to make things better. Sometimes the help comes in the form of information, and sometimes advice, most of the time both. Men feel, trust me we do feel, we just do it in a different way, slower even, much, and that’s what I want to help you with, understanding and truth and the tide of men.

If while reading this psychic romance blog, focusing on each article about relationships and that huge word love, you find that many things have hit a bullseye about your particular issue, then please take a moment and think about allowing me to give you a real psychic romance and relationship reading.

My reviews are amazing, I am 100% honest, and my male point of view could be just what you need. So please continue reading my blog daily. Explore the pages and the posts. You will find so much help here. I feel compelled to state this. The following is important so take it in. Men and women are different, very different from each other. I actually can tell you this also. Women are better than men.
When I read a women’s thoughts, feelings, and intentions, they are all-encompassing, everything is there, plus all kinds of other emotions, feelings, and a million other things all nicely organized.
Women have it down when it comes to romance, maybe too much so. That is the problem in many instances.

Now compare it to a man’s mind. the thoughts men have are so basic compared to a women’s, especially when it comes to romance.
Men think about food, work, money, sex, food, tv, you get the idea.
We think about what is directly in front of us. keeping things so simple. Yes, simple.

I always say that women have a better capacity to romanticize, like a romantic movie, whereas men fantasize more like a quick sexy commercial. I know, very basic, but so true. Please also try not to overthink men either, remember we function at the most basic level. So enjoy everything you read, feel free to leave comments. I will answer. I am here for you always. I want to help as many people as I can. I hope this site, psychic blog, these posts, and of course myself, can help you to a better and happier life,

with all my love and light
Psychic Andrew

Enjoy The Moments

February 2, 2020February 14, 2020 ~ Psychic Andrew ~ Leave a comment

Enjoy The Moment, learn to live in the moment and enjoy your relationship. This will get you the best results

Many times while you are allowing time, yes time the great king of changes, the chance to make things better, to allow circumstances to change, if that is where you are in a relationship, I call that waiting, and it may be good or bad depending on your current situation, but you may also find yourself thinking about what comes next, what will happen, if things don’t work out, if this happens or that happens.
Will we be together always when will he come closer, communicate more lose that “other Person” in his life holding him from you, when will his finances get better, when will he move closer to me. All those things that can be holding back your relationship and so many other things that only sometimes time can fix. They can get caught up in your brain, and you start making those “movies” in your head, you know those movies I’m talking about? You start thinking about it not working or things not going well, in other words, your always looking at the glass as being half empty rather than half full. You may be manifesting the failure of the relationship or any chance at one.

Those movies that we make up in our head need to be positive movies with good endings. Not negative movies with bad endings. What we think, and those movies we make can and will change what is ahead of us. They can manifest things that you can not control. It is so simple but the truth is that when you focus on positive thoughts you get positive results, when you focus on negative thoughts you get negative results.

If you are at a point where things are fine for now and you are progressing in the relationship and in that waiting mode than be positive, please. Why be negative? It won’t help and may hurt.
Things do vary, however, like I always say every single relationship, romance or love affair, is very different, all are unique with many things in common but all unique and should be treated that way.

Let us say for example you are in a relationship, what part of the relationship, for now, is not important. It could be the start of a new one, the middle of one, the fresh start of an old relationship gone bad, it does not matter when it comes to this subject. Time is not infinite for us, every day you waste is a day lost. When you are with your special man or women it is important to savor that moment, to enjoy the time that you are together, the time you spend talking or communicating, the time you both share. So many times you will find yourself with the person you care about but, all you are doing, is thinking about what will happen after, what will come next, what change will this meeting bring.

This is such a waste and in so many cases it is destructive as well, especially if you are thinking negatively. You need to at those moments just not think. You need to embrace the moment in a positive manner, enjoy the time you are together, savor the sounds of his voice, touch, smell, or even laugh. Do not worry if you are going to see him the next day, speak to him tomorrow, or even worry if this will be the last time you do see him, or her. Don’t think about what the time together is going to do for the relationship, enjoy that time now. This must happen, if you cant “Enjoy The Moments” together at any given time, especially early on, then what are you expecting to happen later. Enjoying the moments can bring you the best result in most cases. enjoy that’s what we want right?

I mean to enjoy it. Notice the small things, the positive things, and actions. If you feel something negative or feel something is off please ignore those feelings at least for now. When you are with the other person, you want to immerse yourself in that point in time. You want to covet that time you spend as if it was the last time you will be together, but in a good way, not the bad way, where all you can do is think about whether it will be or not, or be the last time, or not. So much great time together and amazing fun, love, and feelings can be lost because we are not thinking and living in the moment. We are preoccupied thinking about things that are not in our control, or things that are but should be dealt with at a different time.

When you are together all you should be doing is enjoying yourself, realizing the entire time all the great things you feel about that person, and never start thinking about the things you want to change, or the things that are not perfect yet. We work on those things.
Nobody is perfect ever. That is a fact, worrying about things does not help. That is also a fact, but that great feeling you have when you are with him that’s worth enjoying, we can always later work on making things better, for now, you enjoy the moments.

The most important fact is that when you are with the person you want to be with you should make that moment the most important time in your life. If you just relax and enjoy the time you are together, without thinking negatively about “stuff”, without wondering what will happen, or what comes the next day, then you have accomplished many positive things.

The first thing you have accomplished, and the best thing, is that you enjoyed him or her at the highest level possible. You had fun, you felt great, you laughed, you shared, you got the most from that person and that moment. The second thing that you accomplished was creating all those positive feelings that lead to better times ahead. The third thing you have accomplished is the remembrance of the great time you had when you were together so you can use those memories to create positive movies later that will lead to good endings and great changes.

It is a win-win situation. It also ensures that while you are spending that time together, you are not fighting, disagreeing, or creating negative feelings, or energy, that can, and most likely will cause problems. It is easy I assure you. We want to enjoy the moments, so now just do that. Throw the thoughts about your relationship away for now and just “Enjoy the moment.” If your not in a place where that is happening for you then you must call or chat with me right away.

So now that you have read this please put this to good use. The next time you are with your man or woman, the next time you communicate, make it glorious. Do yourself the favor, you will not regret this ever I assure you. It may sound simple because it is, but when you put it to use you will find that enjoying the moment, changes things without even trying. This is the easiest way to make things better in any relationship, romance, or marriage. This works, and it has no downside.

Love and Light Psychic Andrew

Analyze Your Relationship

February 2, 2020February 14, 2020 ~ Psychic Andrew ~ Leave a comment

Some of the things you want to take stock of are as follows.

First and foremost is the communication between you and your partner. Is he communicating more with you? In other words, is he starting to share his feelings and thoughts more with you, is he telling you how he feels about certain things in the relationship and is he talking at all about the relationship, you and him, the future those things. If he has become less communicative then you may have a problem. This problem can be fixed by making some changes so do not panic. Depending on what he is thinking and feeling you and I can discuss certain changes you could make to help him engage more with you on these topics.

The second thing you want to look at is the time he spends with you. I am not talking about telephone time, or chat time and I most certainly am not speaking of texting and the whole virtual gambit. I am talking about real-time, IRL, In Real Life, such as dates, dinners, and events. Maybe as time progresses even some family get-togethers and meeting of friends. Be careful of those last-minute stopovers for just a few moments of his choosing and well his activities.

You want to take a good look and notice if they have declined, or increased, but you also want to look at the quality of the time you spend together. If this has decreased or become a lesser quality time then this needs to be addressed, but again don’t panic this can also be fixed.

The third thing you want to look at is progress, this is how the relationship has grown and is the framework being built for a longer better and more permanent relationship. This is something that you have to be very careful about and not jump to conclusions regarding the framework. Men need time, they, we, run at a slower pace relationship-wise than women, and this is a very big issue with many of my clients. They get freaked out if things do not seem to be moving toward name branding such as what the man refers to you as, such as girlfriend, or other half and so on.

This is not as important as many of my clients think it is. Just because the name branding is not there does not mean that his feelings are not there, and this does not mean that your relationship is not improving or growing. It is something to look at but in many cases not something you need to get super worked up about. That is what a psychic love and relationship reading is for.

The point I want to make is this. I get many calls from clients who wait until things are completely broken, they have broken up with their man, or are in a huge fight that will eventually lead to a breakup. Sometimes things can be put back together but in many cases, it is too late, and I am very honest, if I feel it is over and can’t be fixed I will tell you this so you can, move on and start healing. Sometimes this is the best path.

It is much easier for me to help you fix something before it is going to happen. By reading his thoughts and feelings, reading and analyzing the situation before a problem, I can give you predictions and advice that will keep the bad from happening. I so wish clients would call me before something happens when they start to feel something is wrong or going in the other direction. When you call me first then I can help you with a huge success rate. I will be able to tell you why he is acting a certain way and how he is feeling and thinking about you and then help you with what must be changed to get things back on track and keep your relationship from exploding. In most cases, I can help you to make the relationship better and improve the pace of the relationship or romance.

So do yourself a favor and take stock in your relationship from time to time and if something is off, or feels not right, call me before the big bang not after. Being a great psychic and a man myself can give you the information and help that you need or eventually will need. Better safe than sorry, better sooner than later.

Love and Light Psychic Andrew.

Why can’t I stop thinking of him?

February 2, 2020February 14, 2020 ~ Psychic Andrew ~ 1 Comment

Can’t get him off your mind?, Can’t stop thinking about him even though you need to? Read This. This article on romance advice will help you so much.

When it is time to call it quits and move on so that you can find Mr. Right, Your next soul mate, or you just have to give up on a bad relationship so you can move forward it can be very difficult. Sometimes it is very hard to stop thinking about him or her and you also sometimes wonder why. You will be driving, working, shopping, and all of a sudden or start thinking about him even when you are trying to get him out of your mind and forget the past. Why can’t you stop? What is going on?

The truth is that this is not all your doing. It is not you going crazy, it is not you being obsessed, it is not you that won’t let go, it is him thinking of you. Yes, that is in many cases the problem. You must understand that even when you get out of a bad relationship and you know it won’t work, or it is over for whatever reason there are still connections going on. I call them karmic connections or vibrational connections.

These connections are the residue of the vibrational connection power and love that you both had. It is easy to say that this is the end but you can’t turn off feelings like a light switch and neither can he. He is still in many cases thinking of you and what you are doing is picking up his vibrations of when he thinks of you. Look at this as a radio, you receive and transmit feelings back and forth between each other. When he thinks about you that residual vibrational transmission is received by you and translated into thoughts about him.

The problem with all of this aside from the fact that it is driving you crazy is that until you clear your mind of this person you can’t really move on. It makes it very hard to meet the next man, other men will feel him still in your head, and you may wind up missing out on Mr. right or destroying another relationship. Now you are probably understanding what is happening and wondering what should I do? You can’t stop him from thinking about you, you are trying hard to forget him, you want to move on, but the other person is hurting your chances because he is keeping himself on your mind and sometimes even in real life with those calls for no real reason or other dumb things us men do.

I have a very quick lesson to share with you that will help “train your brain” to block his thoughts and signals to you, or at the very least, help you to stop thinking about him quite so often. I call this lesson The Blank Wall. Please read below and use it each and every time you start to think of this person.

When you start to feel him or her, or you start thinking of him or her, I want you to as quickly as possible start to stare at the nearest white or light-colored wall. Now I want you to pretend that you see a small red dot on that wall. Allow that red dot to be there and watch as it slowly grows bigger and bigger. Focus on it getting larger and larger until it covers the entire wall. Turn the wall red and blackout his thoughts and the thoughts you are feeling about him. Do this each and every time. If your driving at the time, then please be careful, do it in your head please don’t stare at a wall instead of the road but you can just focus on the road and the white line on the road.
The idea behind this amazing mind trick is to train your mind by tricking it into thinking about the red dot that is now covering the wall, instead of the thoughts of him. If you do this enough times eventually, when he starts to pop into your head, you will start to think of the red dot and red wall instead. that red wall, by the way, is your new path to a great new love.

This will help you so very much. It takes time to put someone you cared for or care about behind you. It is not an on-off switch, more like a dimmer switch, and in reality, only time will do the final part of the job for you. It is so important to understand a few things. First, you can’t move ahead until you leave the past where it belongs, and that is in the past. You must get clear first.

The other thing you need to get a handle on is that you are unhappy at this point because you have lost someone, and most people, both men, and women think right away, that the only way to get happy is to find someone else to replace the person you lost. The truth is this does not work. You cant get Happy by using someone else to make you happy. You need to get yourself Happy first. You need to forget about the next relationship for a while and concentrate on being happy alone.

Find new things to do that you enjoy. Visit a museum, read a book at the library, improve your health by changing the way you cook, the way you exercise, add things to your life until you are happy by yourself then and only then will the right person come into your life.
Not only will you find the right person but that person will almost fall from the air into your lap. Yes, you have to have exposure. I have had many people say to me “Andrew when will meet the next man” I ask them if they go out or if they have friends they associate with, if they try the online approach, and many people answer me no. I say to them, well if you are not seen or heard, and you just stay home waiting, then you better hope that the pizza delivery man and yourself hit it off. But that is another story altogether.

This is about forgetting the bad past, making yourself happy, and then and only then, taking the time and the effort to make that quest for the right person. You may even have to kiss a few more frogs to get to the prince but you will get to that prince. It is not even as slow as it sounds and it happens very quickly, sometimes when you least expect it and in the midst of one of your new hobbies or adventures that you added in your life. Changes, positive changes, signals karma to send you even more positive changes, all you have to do is clear the decks and start the process. I am here to help.

It is also important to have what I call the two basics in your life. The first is a job, not any old job, but one you love, or at the very least like.

If you don’t need to work find something to do that you are passionate about, you must have a life for someone to be interested in you. The second is your HOMEBASE, yes I capitalized it because this is important. It may be your house, your apartment, your family’s place, or yes even a cardboard box, as long as you are happy there, and can call it your home. Get those first, and then you will be all set to make things happen so that you can get the most important thing in the world and that my fellow reader is what I have been told is “True Love”, or your perfect partner, one of your many soulmates, yes we have more than just one, and pure happiness. Just start moving forward and stop thinking about him already.

True Love is real, it is out there, and you can have it. I try not to use the word love as it means many different things to many different people, and in fact, you cant actually love another because love is a feeling, but we get what you mean, after all, we, yes you and me, are hopeful romantics. I have helped so many people find this in their lives and I can help you as well. If you have not spoken to me yet and you have a relationship, romance, love life problem, or anything in between including making your existing relationship better, then I urge you to call or chat with me right away. I read to help people. I help many people and could tell you so many stories that would knock your socks off about people I have spoken to that, in the beginning, thought that they would never find true love or happiness. Those people are now smiling and whistling every day. Please, read my reviews, and then call or chat with me and see for yourself the difference I can make in your life.
I am 100% honest and upfront, I never sugar coat, I can be blunt, but always gentle, the gentle truth, and honest, direct answers. I am also very accurate, and very good as advisors, and psychic’s go. I am also a man and not only can I read what the man you want to know about is thinking and feeling about you, but I can interpret those thoughts and feelings much better than women because well, I am a male Psychic.

My clients call me “The Romance Psychic” and it is for a very good reason. If you are new give me a call today, mention my new client special and I will send you 5 free minutes if you spend 10 or more minutes with me. I never charge my family of clients for email followups or email questions, and I like to be kept in the loop after your reading with me so I can continue to help you until you get to that special place, find that special guy, and obtain true love and happiness. I hope this will help many of you.

Love and Light
PsychicAndrew
“The Romance Psychic”

What Is Love?

February 2, 2020February 14, 2020 ~ Psychic Andrew ~ Leave a comment

The word love is mostly used according to the first definition given in the dictionary. Dictionaries vary but this is what the majority says.

An intense feeling of deep affection.” In other words, love is what one feels. You may have very strong feelings about them, you may even believe you cannot live without them, but you do not love them.

That is because love is a feeling and in the definition of a noun:

noun: love; plural noun: Loves

Many people think love is something you can do to another person, or they talk about, “True Love” or “Unconditional Love”.

The word “unconditional” means that there are no expectations or limitations or even parameters that are set. This is so hard for a human being. To love unconditionally is a difficult thing, and most humans aren’t good at that. But this word love gets thrown around so much. people always ask me, “Does He Love Me?”, well that depends on what love means to you, your definition, what that Feeling means to you. Think of love as a feeling and then you can set your relationship goals better.and he can not in definition, Love you, he can make you feel loved, and you can make him feel loved, but that’s where this word “love” starts to get confusing.

Try to think about things in the construct of feelings. Does he feel this way about me? or that way about me? does he have the intention to go further? Questions phrased, or asked in that way, are better than asking about a word that at best, has many different definitions, and we set up these definitions of that word Love in our heads. These definitions that we set up in our heads, well, each version or feelings of love in our minds is always different in some part at least, than the other person’s meaning or feelings of love, so they are never the same. But that’s fine.

When we say “Does He Love Me?”

What we mean is does he have an intense feeling of attraction or deep affection. Does he think of me? does he care about me?

You want to know how he feels about you, not really if he loves you because that’s such an all-encompassing word, it just means so many things to so many different people, that I don’t even like to use it in my readings.

The Verb Definition of Love is similarly small and confusing because its not really an action word. You can’t really love someone. You can make them feel loved, you can feel loved by them, as long as they make you feel that way, you can have this amazing connection and feelings when you are around them, or even talking to them, You can have the feelings, that’s fine, but consider for now at least that the word Love is a huge word that shouldn’t even have a definition when it comes to hopefull, yes hopefull, not hopeless, romantics like me and you. Yes, I am a romantic so you can understand why I want to help as many people find their true partner in life.

There are many types of love if you want to get technical

The four main love types are as follows:

Storge, which is an empathy bond established between people based on caring about how they feel. Such as when you just got divorced or broke off a relationship. Be careful of this love. two people hurting does not usually turn into two people happy, I’m sorry it just doesn’t, most people need time to heal and stand on their own two feet before getting into another relationship.

When you have, or try to have, a relationship that started or is based on Empathy it usually winds up failing or never getting started.

This is just Storge: an empathy bond so make sure you check your feelings and we check him if this is a situation your in now.

The Next Love Type is Philia.

Philia is a love based on a friendship bond. This is when you have this person who may have started out as your friend, maybe a friend from the past, but you start talking, chatting, texting, and before you know it you are hanging out and you have this best friend. it’s just not the type of love feeling that you want now, is it? You may have grown other types of romantic feelings for him or her. Nobody wants to be in the”friend zone” so be careful not to spend too much time as their friend before getting to what you hopefully want, the next stage, romantic feelings.

I can, and have helped so many, that are in this stage, either get their man or move on to some other person that does not just want a friend only but wants a lover, a romantic partner, a relationship based on more than just friendship. unless you seriously just want to be friends, but I have done so many psychic love and relationship readings on this subject, that it really is mostly people that started to “Fall”, for their friend, or had other motives, to begin with.

The Next Type Of Love Is Eros

Eros is what is called romantic love. based on no not LOVE, but feelings, just different types of feelings the type of feelings that you do want. Those feelings include but are not limited to, sexual and attraction feelings and thoughts, romantic thoughts and ideas of being close, the feeling that being together is better than not being together. This is Called Eros love and with a man, it usually starts off with feelings of sexuality, attraction, and other physical attributes. It is the way men start off, we fantasize we do not have the ability to romanticize from the start so this is how we start out and this is exactly the feeling you want from a man you just started out with months.

The last and my personal favorite type of love is Agape.

Agape is universal love, such as the love for strangers, nature, or God. Unlike storge, it does not depend on filiation or familiarity. It is the “Spiritual Love” the love we all hope we can attain.

agape can be said to encompass the modern concept of altruism, defined as an unselfish concern for others, saint-like concern, caring about others beyond and above yourself. when you can attain this type of love, this feeling, usually all the things you want in life, and in love, just fall into place. This is what you should think of when you say, love.

Feelings like love, yes that is what you mostly feel. When we connect to another in such a strong way, that word just pop’s up.

When asking about a man or woman, ask about feelings, not love. Feelings are something you can explain in a few words. This whole “L” word can just confuse things as love is just too many feelings, and has so many definitions, made by so many different people, I think sometimes it can be very overused. I’d rather a man tell you how he feels about you, and that he cares about you, and that you make him feel great when you are with him. I want all that much more than a word called love. “I Love You”. You may want to hear those words but those words will get you in deep. Look for the feelings, not so much the words, follow his actions also, ignore most of what men say especially in the beginning and be careful not to throw the love word.

love and light,
Psychic Andrew